But how often do we hear the nitty-gritty of how we can actually better understand our deepest desires and most embarrassing questions? Bustle has enlisted Vanessa Marin, a licensed sex psychotherapist based in San Francisco, to help us out with the details. No gender, sexual orientation, or question is off limits, and all questions will remain anonymous. Q: I get embarrassed easily, so sex is pretty much a minefield for me. How do you suggest I prevent or deal with stuff like queefing and being clumsy during sex?

Click here to get it. You might wonder what queefing is, what causes it and how it affects your sex life…and more importantly…how to prevent it. Thrusting during sex causes air to repeatedly be pushed into your vagina, which is why you might experience vaginal flatulence during sex and at no other times. Speaking of sex in water , it can be a lot of fun! Mary Jane Minkin explains more here.

Before we start, let's observe a moment of silence for all the women who have experienced queefing during sex and felt ashamed about it. In fact, it is a perfectly natural and normal occurrence. Many women have chosen to accept queefing as part of their sex lives. Others have learned enough to understand the signs of queefing and managed to cleverly prevent it altogether.

It's embarrassing, but rest assured that you are not alone and it happens to many women during yoga. This inopportune body function is known as a "vart" short for vaginal fart and is so common that it's also called a "yoga fart. Vaginal farts are so frequent in yoga that it's really something to laugh about, which has led to all sorts of clever names.