Ripping each other's clothes off and throwing down in the nearest bed is all kinds of hot so, by all means, do that at much as you want. Take a moment here if you need it. But the best way to really connect with your partner is to take to your bed and just get lost in each other: yep, we're talking about romantic sex. You can up the romance factor by setting a date, breaking out the candles and getting the good take-out after. Or you can just slow down and focus deeply on each other.

By Rebecca Wilkin. July 25, pm Updated February 26, am. Society has always been obsessed with sex, but with the onset of the digital age and the rise of social media, our culture has increasingly nursed an obsession with the isolation of sex from the rest of the person. And according to the latest research , this is actually making us a lot less satisfied with sex. But a new series of studies may just provide the key to unlocking the ultimate sexual satisfaction. People who have this harmonious sexual passion find it easy to integrate sex with other aspects and activities in their lives, allowing them to more fully enjoy sexual activity in a spontaneous and uninhibited manner.

I often hear these complaints from my clients. Yet, some couples deeply enjoy their lovemaking with each other even in very long-term relationships. What are they doing differently than the complaining couples?

Skip navigation! Story from Sex. Quite literally, slow sex is all about slowing down the action with your partner so you can be more present and mindful of sensation, with the goal of an overall more pleasurable experience.