Hi, yes, your daily PSA: Stop catering to men's needs as if yours don't matter. Especially in the bedroom. As women channeling major Lizzo energy, it's just as important to seek your own pleasure as it is your partners. We good? Here are 21 things men may be into the bedroom, per relationship and sex experts:. Men are verrrry much visual learners.
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When it comes to knowing what makes your partner tick in the bedroom, Googling " mind-blowing sex positions " only get you so far. Stimulating and gratifying sex is all in the timing, the communication, and the spontaneity, according to Dr. Bea Jaffrey—a clinical psychologist and psychotherapist based in Switzerland—and Mary Jo Rapini, a Houston-based psychiatrist and sex therapist. But what does that mean you should do , exactly? Fortunately, Rapini shared tips with Marie Claire about what actually works in the bedroom lots of her tips are backed up by research, to boot! Research suggests that better communication is key to better sex —and no, we don't necessarily mean dirty talk. Communicating what you like and don't like can be instructional and informative, no matter how much you think you already know each other's bodies.
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We don't mean to clear your throat, speak in deeper tones, and scratch your privates between declaratives. Just get to the point quicker. As much as men love the sound of your voice and really love to help you out, their attention spans are short. Their minds will wander if they don't see a climax and conclusion on your story's horizon. So, as you are sharing the details of today's run-in with Brenda from Business Affairs, skip the transcript of the exchange and create a highlight reel.
When it comes to a romantic relationship, women are mostly taught the importance of better sex, orgasm or relationships but nobody tells you the nitty-gritty of how they can improve the techniques and they are left with little knowledge about precisely HOW to spice up their relationships. Some women say that they're afraid of embarrassing themselves, and others make excuses because being on top is too tiring. Here are some tips on how to ride a guy until he feels like he is in heaven.